media has indoctrinated war, guns and fighting into our minds and all these war movies and games are desensitizing us and I feel it is preparing us for war.
stay steadfast
If anything, the media has brought the harsh reality and pointlessness of war closer to all of us. They are not idealizing it. If they are you are following the wrong media. The censorship was much stronger in the old days. Now you have even mainstream documentaries telling you the story of a common soldier, and the difficulties he faces when returning to normal life.
Of course people like to talk about the events in the past in a more romantic manner, seeing as those had altered the course of history, and if they didn't happen who knows how the world of today would have looked like. Also, everyone today enjoys the fruits of the technological breakthroughs that were achieved during those events or as a consequence of them. It's interesting to learn more about how they were made.